05 August 2008

Adat Nenek Moyang: Merisik

Memandangkan hanya beberapa minggu je lagi SOT akan memulakan adat istiadat orang melayu dalam mendirikan rumah tangga..InsyaAllah 22hb Ogos ini, keluarga SOT akan bertemu dengan keluarga bakal tunangan SOT di Melaka. Justeru, untuk entry ni, SOT nak berkongsi sedikit info berkaitan adat merisik yg dah ramai org melayu tidak amalkan...


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Merisik bertujuan memilih dan mengetahui latar belakang bakal menantu perempuan dalam sesebuah keluarga Melayu. Kononnya kalau nak cari menantu biarlah bersesuaian..Biasanya pihak lelaki akan menyelidiki dahulu latar belakang calon menantu melalui saudara mara, sahabat handai dan jiran tetangga...Yelah nak tahu jugak calon tersebut masih suci atau tidak, perangainya, pandaikah dier memasak, menjahit dan sebagainya, rupa parasnya dan keadaan keluarganya.

Kalau ikut adat sebenar org melayu, keluarga lelaki akan mencari calon menantu mereka setelah dirasakan anak mereka wajar dikahwinkan...(ingat mak ayah yang cari, bukan cari sendiri..hehehehh)...

Ciri-ciri menantu pilihan:
1. Masih Suci (dayus lelaki melayu berkahwin wanita tak suci)
2. Keluarga baik-baik
3. khatam Al-Quran, fasih dalam bacaan dan mahir bertaranum
4. Elok paras rupa
5. pandai menjahit, menekat dan memasak

Setelah calon dipilih, barulah keluarga lelaki akan datang ke rumah pihak perempuan untuk berkenalan....Tujuannya nak kenal depan-depan ah... betul ke calon yg diorang pilih tu sesuai.Kalau berkenan selalunya dihulurkan cincin sebagai tanda dan ditetapkan hari pertunangan.

Kepercayaan Melayu mengenai rombongan merisik

1. Sekiranya rombongan merisik datang ketika gadis sedang mencuci atau mandi - dikatakan jodoh tersebut sejuk dan akan berkekalan (serasilah)

2. Rombongan tiba ketika gadis sedang memasak - jodoh yg panas dan mungkin tidak kekal.

3. Dalam perjalanan terjumpa mala petaka atau halangan - jodoh tidak sesuai.

Selesai adat merisik, pihak lelaki akan pulang dan berbincang sesama keluarga untuk adat meminang pula...

Namun zaman moden kini, byk org dah melupakan adat merisik dan menggabungkan adat ini dengan adat meminang saja...yelah calon pon selalunya dah kenal...al maklumlah...belum apa2 lagi dah bawa balik umah dan kenal2 dengan keluarga...tak yah merisik pon takpe (sori kalau ader yg terasa)..hehehhehe.

apa2pun..SOT akan cuba memelihara adat ini setakat mana yg termampu...(walaupun calon cari sendiri bukan mama ngan abah yg carikan)hehehehhe...

KLIK untuk artikel penuh adat merisik

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